Staring at the ladies?! check the pic...
This is very shameful, but it's true... Young men start staring at a very early age and keep this up to a very old age!! ya3ni the old age guys get on my nerve the most but that's not (مربط الفرس) "the point"... I was actually thinking of translating it to (where we tie horses) :)... Anywa...
What's wrong with people here, what's wrong with the ladies! Would somebody please tell me what they gain from this... and don't tell me its human nature... cause it's human nature is in everything we do in our life but it's up to us to work for the money instead of stealing it... if the women are revealing too much, yes they are wrong... But it's no excuse... its like stealing just because it was easy and too tempting...
It's addictive and it's contagious... just look at a bunch of guys when a woman passes by, ZOOM no one talks... as soon as one starts checking, everyone else in the gang starts a learning experience... what some fail to see is that it also degrades the person doing it to the extreme... At least try to control yourself in public or if people are looking at you...
Back to square one, what do you gain? you just torture yourself and you open up hell to your desires... not to mention degrading yourself... and most importantly, you are doing something haram (forbidden in Islam), I know many people will say oooh its back to haram again everything we enjoy is haram... but it is النظرة سهم مسموم and غض البصر (not looking).. It's not easy and I'm not saying I'm an angel but the scale people are doing this is unbelievable and the extent they are doing it is unbearable... Front view, back view, side view, top view... total scanning of every inch and some inches more than the rest...
What is happening to the ladies, they also stare... they somehow loose focus but for a different reason (I hope)... it's a young woman as well just passing by... but the whole group is checking her out from head to toe... It's usually about the way she's dressed... at least it's not that degrading...
What's wrong with people here, what's wrong with the ladies! Would somebody please tell me what they gain from this... and don't tell me its human nature... cause it's human nature is in everything we do in our life but it's up to us to work for the money instead of stealing it... if the women are revealing too much, yes they are wrong... But it's no excuse... its like stealing just because it was easy and too tempting...
It's addictive and it's contagious... just look at a bunch of guys when a woman passes by, ZOOM no one talks... as soon as one starts checking, everyone else in the gang starts a learning experience... what some fail to see is that it also degrades the person doing it to the extreme... At least try to control yourself in public or if people are looking at you...
Back to square one, what do you gain? you just torture yourself and you open up hell to your desires... not to mention degrading yourself... and most importantly, you are doing something haram (forbidden in Islam), I know many people will say oooh its back to haram again everything we enjoy is haram... but it is النظرة سهم مسموم and غض البصر (not looking).. It's not easy and I'm not saying I'm an angel but the scale people are doing this is unbelievable and the extent they are doing it is unbearable... Front view, back view, side view, top view... total scanning of every inch and some inches more than the rest...
What is happening to the ladies, they also stare... they somehow loose focus but for a different reason (I hope)... it's a young woman as well just passing by... but the whole group is checking her out from head to toe... It's usually about the way she's dressed... at least it's not that degrading...
If you're upset about not having the pic you want on this post... you're exactly the target audience... :) don't hate me...
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I loved how you compared stealing because it is easy to staring because she's revealing a lot, a lot of people use that as an excuse to stare.
Girls staring at other girls is a new phenomenon that has spread in Jordan especially in universaties, girls stare more than guys do, wil moda sayreh il banat y3al2ou, 3ala banat! W the problem is that any self-respecting person is forced to let it pass because those who are not ashamed to STARE surely won't be ashamed to yirda7ou! Ugh!
As usual, my comment is longer than the original post! :)
Always a pleasure to read your comments... long or short...
And the girls , Ohhhhhh Myyyyy Godddddddddd ... msh m32oolen , they think that its ok to stare as long as im a girl , bs 3njd , its frustrating , enu ana shu 3meltelek ya #$^@*&! la7atta hek tfasleeeni mn fo2 la ta7t!! I think it's becoming really annoying , more than ever. And the best thing that will happen , is that "5idmet el 3alam" is back , Godddd it's sooo wise and we so need it. Sorry for the long comment bs im really frustrated.
At a different time, different place maybe things would be better...
& never mind, keep the long comments going... they're great... by the way I don't think 7'edmet el 3alam will help you in this...
nos banat amman 3am te6la3 o heye yadooob labseh. ya3ne el shab sayer hal ayyam yekayef 3ala el '7addamat lol
eza el benet 7abeh telbas eshe mshala7 ya 3ame elbasee bel a33rass ma 7ada bye7ke eshe! mo bel share3!
I disagree, yes the girls are wrong but that doesn't give the right for anyone to stare... ba3dein for God's sake citizen was wearing 3abae and that didn't stop guys and girls from staring and verbal abuse...
As a matter of a fact I'm not justifying el tashlee7 la fel a3ras wala fe el share3 but you cannot justify staring... One wrong act doesn't justify a wrong act in return...
الله خلق لنا العيون حتي نكتشف ما من حولنا.مل الغلط في دالك؟
hmmm and 3ashan ngool sob7ana allah... I don't think so...
you saw me,NOW WHAT?
"NOW I can dream...." that would break your heart...
"Now... DHAAAA"
"Now lets focus on the other woman 2 Km away..."
"Now I can sleep, I haven't seen one from morning time, what's happening to this world..."
Even with my kids there, disgrace themselves with this behaviour. I even had a 12 year old make an obscene remark, when I was with my own twelve year old.
Jesus said to look at a woman with lust is to have committed adultery. He never said anything about it being a woman's fault, although we are called to modesty as well.
With one look we can appreciate with purity the beauty God created in each gender. A second look is sin.